July 17, 2008
Dad
My Dad has been admitted to hospital. He has been really poorly for some time and has been through a great deal including 2 triple heart bypass surgeries and cancer. He has had some pretty bad treatment of late and everyone (including the consultant he is under now) feels that he should have been admitted several months ago. Anyway, the prognosis is generally pretty grim-it seems that his kidneys are beginning to shutdown and this is causing a lot of dangerous side effects.
I hate hospitals at the best of times, but going to the ward where the “emergency evaluations” are carried out really is bad. Is this wrong? I’m certainly of the opinion that if someone is ill they are in the very best place in hospital, but I’m not a big hospital visitor, especially the vigil type (which my sister is)-so I always come away feeling drained and selfish.
My big dilemma now is our forthcoming break - do we carry on as normal (we all need a break) and if I’m required to be back I can come, or do I hang around on the off chance? Is this heartless? I’m not sure, but either way I won’t be sitting at bedsides, the thought of that depresses me even more.
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